CLEAN TEETH AND FRESH BREATH
First off, you absolutely must have clean teeth and fresh clean smelling breath. You should have your teeth cleaned at least twice a year. And brush your teeth every morning and evening and after ever meal if possible. Drink a lot of water rather than soft drinks (for general health and for healthy teeth), coffee can stain your teeth and leave bad breath. Also if you are on a date and you go to dinner, after you eat go to the restroom and clean your teeth and make sure you don't have any food stuck in your teeth. The natural enzymes in your mouth can cause the food to putrefy in your mouth and cause bad breath. This is especially true with meat! Keep some mints handy for the both of you. Mints are better than gum because they will dissolve where gum will stay around and may get in the way of your first kiss! Now that you have clean teeth and breath, let's talk about kissing technique.
KEEP YOUR LIPS IN SHAPE
Do you want to kiss someone with dry, cracked and or raw lips? Well neither does she! So keep your lips in good shape. Keep some chapstick, carmex or other lip conditioner with you at all times and keep your lips soft and smooth. Don't pick or pull your skin on your lips, it will only make it worse!
KISSING TECHNIQUE
So first off go slow and don't rush things. When the time is right, slowly go in for the kiss and be very gentle, with only slightly parted lips. Most women complain that either the guys are too tight lipped or to wide lipped and slobber all over them. So you need to have just slightly parted lips. Then gently press or cushion your lips on hers. When you put your lips on hers they will fit better if you straddle either her top or bottom lip between your lips. Kiss her long and slow, and then if she responds follow her lead and kiss her again.
Each time savor the experience and vary where your lips land from her top lip to her bottom lip or on both lips...
As you continue you can part your lips more and gently start to bring just the tip of your tongue into play. Now if she has stared sticking her tongue into your mouth, then that is a strong signal for you to do the same, but still go slowly and don't stick it in all the way, go slow in a teasing manner.... Once you get to this point of passionate French Kissing, there are endless variations and techniques you can use. I will give you a few below.
Tongue Techniques:
When you are kissing passionately with your tongues involved you can:
1. Run your tongue around hers and intertwine your tongue with hers.
2. Play the follow me game: Touch her tongue, then quickly bring your tongue back into your mouth and see if she follows you?
3. Suck on her tongue! or Suck on her lower lip! GENTLY PLEASE!!!
4. Flick the tip of her tongue with your with your tongue the same way that you would her clitoris if you were performing oral sex on her. This technique will give her the message that you would be good at oral sex!
5. Lick the edges of the inside of her lips with the tip of your tongue.
Those should get you going and for your homework, come up with variations of your own.
Now that you have been passionately kissing you may be heading toward passionate lovemaking. So let's take this kissing into the realm of foreplay and oral sex!
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